Monthly Archives: July 2020

There are times within the calendar year that mark change.  The start of the school year is certainly one of the prominent and normally, assumed events of the year. No matter if you have school age children participating in the start day, we are all aware of the shift from the lazy days of summer to the new beginning of the educational year.  This moment, although experienced in different ways, is felt across the globe.

This year, the start of…..

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“The creation of the world did not take place once and for all time, but takes place every day.” This is an observation written by playwright Samuel Beckett.

This is great advice for Pay Offs part 3.  However,

Great advice is only a collection of words without an offer of how to achieve the great advice!

So…  Erase and Replace is an exercise for the moment.  Take out a note book, open a payoff page in a Word document or…..

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“Everything is complicated, if that were not so, life and poetry and everything else would be a bore.” Wallace Stevens

Wallace Stevens was an American modernist poet whom we can reasonably assume, if he were alive today he would not be bored.

Reveling in the complexity of life and payoffs can unearth and untangle any situation you are emotionally attached to.

Learning from poems, movies, books and frankly even gossip is not only possible, but effective.  I like this…..

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What is a Pay Off?

A new landscape is being born on earth. Navigating the choices and changes required on this new terrain takes knowledge and awareness that there is a payoff to every choice and change.  We assume a payoff is a positive, but that is not always true.  A payoff can also be a comfortable negative.  Making peace with “what is” can save us from the discomfort of change.  Unfortunately the new reality might prevent this fall back…..

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July is the month we celebrate our independence and according to the numerology of the month it will be packed with fireworks!   This month’s numerology is 11/2.  11 is a master number associated with spiritual leader energy, cosmic wisdom and worldly marvels.  People during this time will be more aware of their own inner truths and how they are expressing them.

The 11 is written as 11/2 for a reason.  The 11 is not the only energy being expressed this…..

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Have you ever felt pressure to align your beliefs or comments to those around you for what felt like survival?  The right answer becomes harder to see, when everyone in the situation is screaming and agreeing to answers you know will not work.  Your survival instinct kicks in and you just want to get out of the situation as fast as you can.  However, leaving the room only to ignore what is happening can be equally unsettling. Having your facts…..

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